HOW TO KEEP A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP STRONG AND SEXY.

How TO KEEP A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP STRONG AND SEXY

Each couples has different communication needs, so decide how often you'll talk (maybe it's every day, maybe every other day with texting and WhatsApp  in-between ). 

Schedule calls in advance, and set aside other activities (turn off the Facebook feed!) so you can really focus on the conversation, just like you would if you were in the same place.

Keep Things Light

Don't fall into the trap of dwelling on how much you miss each other and how hard it is to be apart. While it's healthy to express those feelings, to maintain a sense of normalcy and closeness it's equally important to talk about random, happy stuff that's going on. 

Send each other quick texts—like that you just had the best sandwich ever, or totally wiped out on the subway—and bring up the kind of mundane details you'd fill each other in on at the end of the day if you lived together .

It's bad enough to fight with your guy and not be able to see or touch him, but it's even worse if you can't hear his voice…so never argue via text or phone. If you're upset about something, discuss there  over the phone—or even better on FaceTime or Skype. Remember that because you can't read each other's body language, you'll need to really listen, as well as be super honest about I you feel.

Get on the Same Page

Be open about your goals in life and for the relationship. If one of you is hoping to eventually live in the same place and get married, while the other is looking for a fun escape during business travel, things aren't going to work out in the end.

Start Tripping

How frequently you visit depends on distance, work, and finances. But as a general rule, try to see one another often enough so the relationship feels real, but not so much that it become stressful.

Be Surprise-Savvy

Last-minute visits can be fun, just make sure you know his schedule so that your dropping by won't interfere with his plans. It's smart to call a few days beforehand—that way you give him a heads-up, while still maintaining the excitement factor

Integrate Him Into Your Life

And when he  is visiting? Even though it's tempting to spend 24/7 holed up between the sheets, incorporating him into your regular routine helps your relationship feel more normal. Of course, have a few date nights , but also hang out with friends all together, bring him to your Sunday  class, go grocery shopping and make dinner.

Have Fun With Yourself

Use the time you're not together to sign up for a photography class, take cooking lessons, or learn to play tennis. Staying busy helps keep your mind off missing him, plus makes you a better, happier GF in the long run.

Make His Mailbox Happy

We know, shipping is expensive—still, sending an unexpected care package every once in a while goes a long way. If he's sick, pack a box with vitamins, herbal tea, a book, and a couple of DVDs. If he got a promotion, order a bottle of champagne and then toast together over Skype

Turn Your Phone Into a Sex Toy

Phone or Skype sex will feel more natural if it's spontaneous, rather than scheduling it in advance; just make sure you both have a stretch of free time. Start by telling him that you couldn't stop thinking about him all day, and then describe exactly what you wish he could do to you.

Set Up Long-Distance Dates

Watch the same movie that you start at the same time and text each other comments throughout, order the same kind of takeout and set up FaceTime on your iPads so that you're "sitting" at the table together, read the same book and discuss it, have a game of Words With Friends going on your phones, get the same video game and play with phone headsets on to let you talk while you play. It sounds silly but will make you less lonely when you're apart! 

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